Being in a different place allows us to express our freedoms and experiment. After all, no one in the hotel knows who you are so you can easily pretend to be someone else.
R. Jay Moran
Is it just me or does sex always seem better in a hotel than at home? When I think about my top five or ten sexual experiences, at least half of them occurred in hotels. It doesn’t matter if you’re with a long-time partner, or someone new, there’s something about a hotel that seems to make sex (and even masturbation) more fun. Here are some thoughts.
Anonymity can spur exhibitionism and voyeurism
Being in a hotel is not like being in your house or apartment. Even if you don’t see your neighbors every day, when you’re home you’re aware they are there and also aware that they will likely be in close proximity to you for a long time. If a neighbor catches you naked or hears your orgasm, you’ll likely have to face that person again and again over the course of months or years.
However, when we’re in a hotel, we usually don’t know who is in the adjoining rooms, and even if we do catch a glimpse of them or even talk to them, they know so little about us that we feel freer to let go of our exhibitionist side. Whether it’s making loud noises and knowing you can be heard in the hallway or in the adjoining room, having sex in front of an open window, or even daring each other to walk down the halls naked, hotels are often perfect for letting loose our exhibitionist side.
Along with that, we’re also much more likely to hear and see sexual acts when we’re in a hotel. During my last hotel stay, just a couple of weeks ago, the couple next to me engaged in loud sex pretty much every evening, and with an adjoining door I could hear everything including their dirty talk, pet names for each other, and a whole bunch of other details that were easy to infer based on both their sounds and words. With that going on in such close proximity, it’s difficult not to have sexy thoughts.
Being in different surroundings takes us away from our responsibilities
For women in particular, getting outside of the home can really ramp up their ability to lose themselves in the moment. One of my female friends once commented, “When we have sex at home I’m looking around the bedroom and being reminded that the carpet needs vacuuming, the laundry needs being done and the dog needs to be let out. But when I’m at a hotel my mind is free to enjoy the moment.” I think that’s why hotel sex can be great for long-term couples.
Once we’re away from our own surroundings it also gives us a green light to experiment with something new. Looking to record a sexy video for the first time? It may seem weird to bring the idea up at home where habits are often entrenched and the question may be asked “Why are you bringing this up NOW?” But being in a different place allows us to express our freedoms and experiment. That also includes role-playing. After all, no one in the hotel knows who you are so you can easily pretend to be someone else.
Being around other people allows us to interact and fantasize about different partners
Whether it’s the pool, bar, restaurant or a conference, hotels bring different people together and often allow them to interact in personal ways. You may not invite a stranger to your pool or hot tub, but you can find yourself next to one in a hotel environment. We also become more aware that other people are watching us. At the same time, we have our collective guard down because we may not care too much about what a random stranger in a random town thinks about us.
A lot of my stories have hotels as their focal points, partly because my mind seems instantly inspired to sexual fantasy as soon as I walk up to the front desk. The other reason is that hotels are great settings for various types of people to interact. So let’s take a look at some of my favorite hotel room stories.
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Toronto Baseball Stadium Sex Fantasy
Toronto’s baseball stadium is an exhibitionist’s dream come true. With hotel rooms overlooking the field, who wouldn’t be tempted to have sex in front of more than 30,000 fans? If that idea sounds familiar it’s because it’s happened. A number of years ago a couple was caught doing just that and the footage ended up around the world and on the internet. Now you have to sign a waiver when you rent the field view rooms saying you won’t engage in that kind of hanky panky in the room. In this story, however, the male character knows the stadium very well and finds a way around the problem.
I got the idea for this story after watching a woman in a hotel bar deal with her husband and his loud friends. The testosterone at their table was high, but not in a good way. I saw the disappointment on her face and inferred that this was a rare time they had away from their kids. She was dressed for romance, but he was more interested in shouting, drinking and watching the game. Later, when I was lounging beside the empty hotel pool a little later in the day the story came into my mind of how a charming stranger might just give her everything she was looking for.
In part two, Mom goes back to her room after wild sex with a stranger and ripping her swimsuit. She ditches her robe in the elevator when she realizes it has the name of my hotel on it, then realizes the key she picked up isn’t hers and she’s locked out of her room naked.
This has been one of my most popular stories. The protagonists have already met online and the man is flying into her city to meet up with her. Knowing he’ll be delayed she decides to go into the hotel room first to freshen up, despite being nervous about seeming too eager. After accidentally falling asleep on his bed things begin to take a more interesting turn.
We all know the feelings we get when the couple in the room next to ours starts having loud sex. For me, it’s part turn-on and part jealousy that I can only hear it and not watch or participate. After all, we’re just two turns of a doorknob away from seeing and experiencing everything in that next room. What happens when those doors are left slightly ajar?
Virgin College Student Meets Her Master
Much like meetings and conferences, hotels offer a neutral space for people to come together. As a teacher develops a dominant sexual relationship with a student online over distance, the most natural place for them to come together and realize their fantasies is the master’s hotel room.
Business Woman Caught Masturbating in Her Hotel Room
This story contains a couple of key hotel themes. One is the illusion of privacy. After all, a door unlocked or not pulled forcefully enough can allow anyone to enter. The other theme involves the idea of meeting someone on your trip and going back to your room to fantasize about them knowing full well that you have the means to potentially fulfilling this fantasy. After all, a hotel room practically implies a sexual rendezvous. You’re both in the same building and privacy and anonymity is right there.
So what makes hotel sex great?
I’d love to hear your answers as well as your reaction to any or all of my stories on this theme. Send me a message below.
